Please, Can Anybody Write a Fictional Answer on This Problem as a Letter?
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Hey people, I’m german and it’s the first time for me that I have to answer on a letter in English.Can you write an Answer-letter to this problem with complimentary close/salutation (yours sincerely and all that) and all these things please ?
I hope so and say thanks to all people who help me 🙂
Dear Family:My husband somehow started “chatting” with some people on the Internet and has wound up talking to them more now than he does me. He’s not secretive or anything about it; he’s just obsessed about having to be on the computer at 9 p.m. so they can all talk. I can come and see what he’s doing and it’s all very innocent mostly about politics and hunting. I think that is all pretty strange to spend that much time (usually from 9 to 11 p.m.) on the computer talking to people he’s never met. When I tell him those people aren’t real and that he’s ignoring his real family for them, he gets mad at me and clams up.
At any rate, the problem is that we have no time for us anymore. He’s a really good father and is involved with our kids, helps them with homework, baths and bedtime stories. But then he’s off to the computer until bedtime. I usually am already in bed and sometimes asleep when he comes to bed, so we usually don’t talk then. We had had a good sex life but now I’m not willing for him to come to bed and just have sex without any connecting time at all. So he’s mad at me about that and I’m mad at him because he’s choosing his “friends” over me. Am I just being selfish? We never did a lot together or talk a lot before, but this is ridiculous. Does he have some kind of Internet addiction problem? — LEFT OUT WIFE
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Answer by This is MY apocalypse girllll
Dear [Enter her name here]:
Have you talked to him about this? Maybe he is so consumed with using the internet he doesn’t realise he’s upsetting you by doing it. My best advice would be to sit down and talk to him about it when it’s just you and him and tell him how you feel. He might not realise that his use of the internet is straining your relationship.
The good thing is, he’s not secretive about it and he’s only on the internet a couple of hours a day. If he was secretive, maybe then you’d have a problem. He might just like talking to people with similar interests like politics and hunting, because he knows nobody else who share an interest for them aswell.
He seems to be abit protective over his internet friends though. When you decide to talk to him, calmly tell him you think your private life is suffering and his family miss him. You understand he likes talking to these people but he needs to communicate with his family too.
I’m sorry you feel this way. Try to work it out with him. I’m sure he just doesn’t realise that he’s upsetting you. Feel free to call me if you want, i’m always here if you need a chat.
-Yours sincerly, your family.
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